我同我男友行左3年,我同他提出結婚,佢大我,叫我同佢老豆講,就同我結,我真的有同佢老豆講左,隔左幾日後,佢老豆問佢係咪想結婚,跟住佢無答佢老豆,之後我同佢去左佢老豆度食飯,佢老豆問我想點擺?係邊到擺?但我男友在場,佢一句說話都無講過,(因為我知道佢吾係甘想結住,但係我好想同佢今年結,)因為我條仔果種人成日都吾爹吾調,好難服侍,我仲好厚面皮甘同佢老豆講左2次,佢老豆都想我地結婚,我吾想再問第3次了,我覺得好瘀,我真係好想同佢今年裡面結婚,(但今年結吾成我就會打消依個念頭)有咩方法可以令到我男友肯同佢老豆講今年結婚,我真係吾知應該點做?請大家比的意見